Gemini North Node people are learning how to deliver the
messages that they are meant to pass on, and how to hear the
messages they need to receive. To do this most effectively, they
must discriminate between the different functions of the mind and
emphasize that aspect which promotes a factual, logical orientation.
These folks have spent many past lives developing their
philosophies and relying on their intuition. In their private, solitary
search for Truth, intuitive knowing was their best guide. However,
now that they are back in society, factual information will help them
connect in a way that restores their inner peace. If they make
decisions based solely on intuition, it almost always results in
isolation from others. If they feel uncertain or upset about a
situation, they need to seek more information. It’s easy for these
folks to misunderstand, and they are quick to feel rejection when
none was intended.
However, if they have a strong intuitive feeling about something
they should not just push it aside. Their best bet is to take the time
to ask questions that will ease their mind: “I heard what you said,
but for some reason I have an uneasy feeling about this. I want to
get some more information so I’m sure what I’m getting into.”
These folks always benefit from gathering the information that
gives them the reassuring, warm feeling of “truth” inside.
In this incarnation, making decisions based on spontaneous
impulses does not work for Gemini North Node people. If they have
a spontaneous urge to get on a plane and go to Peru, they need to
stop and consider the idea from a logical base. Decisions made from
a logical base, rather than from trust or high hopes, will work out
best for them in the long run. In this lifetime, Gemini North Node
people cannot take shortcuts without taking all the facts into
account.
These folks are also learning the value of applying logic to daily
situations. For example, if one of their truths is a belief in the value
of friendship, they need to hold their goal in mind—“creating
friendship”—and then logically observe what kinds of behavior
create friendship. How does a friendship develop out of a casual
acquaintance? What common denominators exist in successful
friendships? Logic will tell them what behaviors work best to create
the friendships they seek. Above all, logic is soothing for them. It
provides them with a sequential process through which things can
work out, and this is calming for them. When they use logic, they
feel connected and see how they can maneuver effectively through
society. In new situations, Gemini North Node people can deal with
their anxiety by logically strategizing how to proceed, because
planning gives them the feeling of continuity that they need.
Gemini North Node people are here to circulate the energy of
Truth through society. When they are unable to spark another
person to see a higher truth, it’s often because they’re not listening
to what that person is really saying. They aren’t responding
appropriately. When they accurately perceive where the other
person is coming from in the conversation, then they can match
their words and timing to connect with the other person on his or
her level to translate their truth so the other person can hear it.
When they respond appropriately, the feeling of disjointedness will
evaporate. This requires patience on their part. It also requires them
to be sufficiently excited about the possibilities in the potential
connection to invest the time and energy.
But sometimes these folks are judgmental about who is “worthy”
of their patience. The irony is that they have the capacity to create
true communication with almost everyone they meet! They are
accustomed to looking for people who are also seeking Truth, but in
this lifetime they cannot speak exclusively with other philosophers.
They need to listen to everyday people: the mail carrier or the clerk
at the grocery store. There is an endless variety of people they can
connect with and they must find those for whom they have
messages.
But they have to trust the universe to bring the right people to
them. Whenever there’s a miscommunication, that’s the person with
whom they need to have patience. Miscommunication is a red flag
for these folks, signaling them to slow down and pay attention to
whoever is right in front of them.
The main purpose for Gemini North Node in this lifetime is
teaching. When others are not aware of the importance of Truth on a
daily basis, it gives these folks an opportunity to gently teach what
they have learned. The operative word here is “gently” . . . or
“tactfully,” “lovingly,” “diplomatically,” “humorously,” or
“sociably.” They need to share their message in a way that does not
cast the others as “wrong.” Then the others will not feel defensive
and will be able to successfully receive the message.
Gemini North Node people are naturally helpful; when they see
someone in trouble, they are among the first to offer assistance.
However, their tone of voice and their delivery can sound like
“preaching” when they don’t realize that the certainty behind their
ideas has a self-righteous quality. They truly want to give the other
person the answer to the problem at hand. But they are learning that
even if they do have the solution, the other person won’t be able to
hear it if their delivery is offensive. Just like trying to give medicine
to a child, coating it with sugar makes it easier on everyone. These
people need to learn tact: how to package their ideas in a brief,
informative way that others are willing to swallow.
Gemini North Node people are reluctant to seek advice, because
they fear it will show they are unsure and they think they already
know what the other person will say. Actually, the other person may
tell them something totally different from what they expect, and it
may be the very thing they need to resolve their quandary! Other
people can indeed help these folks to see things from different
angles and give them an opening for new insights.
They are always surprised to discover that others are aware of
what’s going on with them even though they haven’t divulged the
fact that they are having a problem. They think if they show an
optimistic face, others will accept that everything is fine. In truth,
others are often quite sensitive to these people’s moods and may
have just the piece of information that will be helpful.
Formal education is good for Gemini North Node people, and
they enjoy acquiring new knowledge and new information. This
kind of broad learning helps them to see the “big picture” and puts
them in touch with the way society thinks. It offers them structure
and exposes them to various points of view, which keeps them from
remaining stuck in their own “truth.” Reading also enables them to
practice seeing life from the perspective of someone else’s mindset.
These folks are like empty hard disks on a computer: They are
hungry for information. They like their reading to cover many
different subjects; otherwise they might get bored with it. As well as
expanding their knowledge, reading gives them a variety of subjects
to talk about with others, which makes them more confident in their
ability to relate.
It’s healthy for these folks to put themselves in situations where
they are surrounded by different people, because each one teaches
them something new about themselves. They often see things in a
moralistic or spiritual way, so they ate willing to take lessons from
others to heart. New situations force them to question who they are
and what they believe in. So they have to start meeting people,
asking questions, reading: in other words, doing everything they can
to learn about each new situation. It’s another chance for them to
see the world from other people’s points of view.
If Gemini North Node people try to settle down and avoid
personal growth, something will happen externally to propel them
toward a new challenge. Since “the writing is on the wall” in this
respect, it’s wiser for them to choose to go where their intuition is
pointing and willingly move through life. But these folks can be
stubborn about learning the lessons they are scheduled to master.
They need to be aware of this tendency and be consciously open to
changing—so as to avoid the unnecessary mental or physical pain
of getting a “wake-up call.” When they choose change, the new
situations motivate them and put them back into the flow of life.
One of the best ways Gemini North Node people can experience
the integration they’re seeking is through the process of writing—a
journal, books, articles, etc.—on a regular basis. The physical
process of taking pen in hand and writing down what they are
thinking grounds them in a confident, stable way. Writing calms
their internal restlessness, releasing the tension and anxiety in a
form that brings them peace.
These folks are extremely talented writers, although they may not
recognize this until much later when they look back over what they
have written. They have an ability to clarify thoughts on paper in a
simple way that actually communicates far beyond the words. Also,
when they begin to write about their problems or experiences, it
focuses their subconscious and the answer they were looking for
comes through them and onto the page!
Writing is a tremendous release for them. If they are upset with
someone, or feel misunderstood, one of the best therapies is to write
the other person a letter. Even if they never send it, simply writing it
makes them feel much better. They can even write: “It’s been a
tough day—I feel so stressed out.” The simple act of writing down
whatever they are noticing in that moment will discharge some of
that intense mental energy. In this way they release heavy mental
stress and open themselves to solutions that bring them peace.
For these folks, writing can even be a good profession. There’s so
much flexibility and room for growth that it can be the “one thing”
they are looking for. They needn’t rely on a corporation or a
structure; they can be anywhere and be themselves and do their
life’s work—and that appeals to them.
Gemini North Node people are so used to silence that in large
groups they may be shy about sharing their message—yet they can
make the very best of orators. After they have listened to the ideas
of the other group members, they may notice a discrepancy between
what is being stated and what is actually going on. In this case, it is
their job to share the truth of their factual experience. They may feel
such energy and passion, that they aren’t sure they’ve said the right
thing. But if they are compelled to say something to put things into
alignment, they should go ahead and share it.
The key for successfully doing this is to first acknowledge that
they have heard and understood what the other person said, and then
respond positively about it to validate the other person (for
example, “You spoke eloquently, with heartfelt sincerity, with
courage,” etc.). It can also help if these folks use the other person’s
own words to form a connection with them. As long as they first
acknowledge what the other person has said, the other person will
be able to acknowledge what they say.
In this incarnation, Gemini North Node people are here to teach.
They are here to bring the Truths, principles, and practical
application of ethics into society. They understand universal law
and want to help others learn to apply it in practical ways in daily
situations.
They are learning that Truth lies behind the words, and that they
must listen carefully to others’ words in order to understand the
questions that others are asking. If they let go of their ideas of Truth
and really listen, they will automatically tune in to the other
person’s belief system and spontaneously say—through a sincere
question or a new piece of information—those words that will shift
the perspective for both of them to a fresh recognition of Truth.
When Gemini North Node people view themselves as teachers,
rather than as philosophers, their entire experience of sharing Truth
shifts and becomes a total joy for them. As teachers, they don’t
expect others to know what they know, which gives them more
patience in relaying their messages. When they assist another
person in discovering his or her own truth, they experience harmony
and share the warm feeling that comes when Truth is present.
As teachers, these folks have to divorce themselves from
prejudicial viewpoints and allow the other person to think freely,
without trying to guide the other to a conclusion that’s identical
with their own. It’s the difference between a true question and a
rhetorical question. A true question prompts the other person to
answer in harmony with his or her own inner truth, whereas a
rhetorical question maneuvers the other person into reaching certain
pre-established conclusions. Rhetorical questions do not work for
these people; true questions and logic are gifts that Gemini North
Node people bring to help others find a higher level of perception.
When they act as true teachers, these folks behave in a way that
creates a win/win situation for everyone.
Gemini North Node people are learning to value human
relations and the importance of maintaining goodwill in their daily
interactions with others. They have a tendency to be so aware of
their own Truth and their own aims that they are likely to forget the
importance of treating others gently.
Drawing on their many lifetimes of spiritual truth, these folks can
open the doors to honest, self-revealing communication. When they
do, a feeling of timelessness blesses and enlightens everyone
involved. The atmosphere is charged with what feels like a soul-tosoul communication. Afterwards there is a feeling of: “Let’s
celebrate tonight . . . let’s cry and laugh over the past . . . let’s plan
and dream about the future . . . let’s just be right now and share
together.” Gemini North Node people have the gift of opening an
entirely new level of communication when they are willing to reveal
their intimate selves—without having to be “right” or be the hero.
Questions are an invaluable tool for these people. It can be
better for them to ask a question than to come up with the answer. If
they’re not able to develop rapport with someone, they should ask
the other person a question (not a rhetorical question, but a true
question), honestly seeking to understand what the other person is
thinking. The other person will often stumble into his or her own
truth in the process of answering the question, because Gemini
North Node people have Truth in their energy field!
As long as their motive is to connect, the right way of
communicating—what to say and how to say it—automatically
becomes clear to them. Until they get the hang of it, this can be
difficult and requires a conscious effort. They must force
themselves to listen and to ask questions—and it can be hard for
them to control that restlessness inside. Yet for Gemini North Node
people, asking questions to gain more information is very
important. It helps them feel “in the moment” and involved in the
interaction.
The misunderstanding that causes difficulty for these folks is the
idea that there are two kinds of talking: regular conversation in
which people simply talk about their daily lives, and much deeper
connections that can only occur while discussing a subject that is
soul searching and significant. The irony is that Gemini North Node
people can have real communication—deep and meaningful sharing
with another person—without talking about life and death,
philosophy, or major decisions. The connection can occur through
talking about the simple things of life, but these folks must be
engaged and asking questions. When they do engage in this way,
they suddenly find that everyone wants to be around them—because
it’s such a joy for others to talk with them. In turn, they want to be
around lots of different people because they enjoy the variety of
experiences they can tap into.
However, the process involves giving up control. Gemini North
Node people are very good with small talk, but if they ask a friend:
“Why are you going to Chicago?” they don’t know what the other
person is going to say. That means they won’t know how to
respond. Because the other person is going to give them new
information, they’re essentially giving control of the conversation to
that person. It feels good to them on one level, but they’re always
afraid they’re not going to know what to say next! Yet when they do
let go and allow the other person to control the conversation, what
they want to say comes naturally, and their real selves come out in a
positive way.
When these folks take a chance, release control, ask others
questions about their lives, and remain open to connecting—
somehow the connection happens. They can call on their natural
trust that the universe knows what it’s doing when it moves energy
between two people. Ironically, they feel no fear at all when the
other person asks them questions—it gives them a chance to share
their truth!
Gemini North Node people want to achieve a higher level of
interaction with the other person. They want to expand beyond
where either could have gone on their own. But only through really
communicating with others can new, expanded ideas and
resolutions become apparent.
These folks have been isolated for so long on mountaintops that
they have forgotten the nuances of how to relate with others. They
can be like a bull in a china shop, rushing to accomplish their
purpose with a total lack of awareness of the delicate feelings of
those around them. They are unaware of social graces and good
manners because they are not used to living in society, where people
generally get their way in a manner that evokes the support of
others. Caring and taking the time to not alienate others is valuable,
as isolation would create unnecessary obstacles to meeting one’s
needs. These folks are learning: Social graces will empower them to
live in society and gain the benefits.
These folks benefit by being aware of others’ reactions and
body language. They are often more intent on their message than on
the effect of their words. They may say something and then notice
that the other person looks shocked. Rather than let it pass, they
should check with the other person: “I noticed that you just stepped
backward. Did I say something that hurt or offended you?” If the
other person says “yes,” the Gemini North Node could say: “Well,
my intention was not to hurt you, so I think we’ve had a
misunderstanding. What was it you thought I said?” Nearly all the
problems they have in relationships can be traced back to careless
communication.
In this lifetime, these folks are learning about themselves and
about what it means to be human. As they experience themselves in
different situations, their understanding of human nature grows.
Moreover, all their different life experiences teach them something
about themselves. As they understand themselves more deeply and
recognize the contradictions that are part of the human experience,
they come to accept the different facets of their own nature. This
opens the way to understanding and accepting the contradictions
within others, and they are welcomed back into the family of
humankind.